the co worker part 2

We made it past the first date but then again our first date was nothing more then a movie. That was fine, we both had worked that day and were a bit tired, skip the dinner see a movie, decide if we are interested in getting to know each other better. The few moments before the movie are a great time to chit chat, the ride home a great time to decide if he has a chance. No matter what any one says girls can decide if there is a chance for a second date with in two sentence spoken. Our first indication comes with appearance, there is the ‘ I can work with it’ guy, The “ no matter how sweet he is this isn’t happening again,” and the “damn he is so hot I can’t remember if he spoke that night”. Looks aside all it takes is the ten to fifteen minutes before the movie for us to decide if we are interested in perusing this further. No I am not saying yes this man is going to be the father of my children, unless you happen to fall into the ‘Damn your so
hot I can’t remember if I did anything else but drool’ our ovaries don’t happen to scream ‘Whose your daddy’ all that fast.
Our second date he took me to a skating rink. It had been a while since I was on a pair of roller skates, probably twenty years at least. I thought it would be fun though. It showed he was light hearted, he did something we enjoyed from our childhood, he had potential. I think one thing is important in any man I am with, you need to be able to have fun. Relax, laugh, have a great time. You will be amazed at how many men are so caught up with impressing you they forget to just relax and laugh. So what if you drop your ice cream down the front of your shirt. Well ok yeah I might have thoughts but if you can make a joke out of it those thoughts wont be as bad.

the co-worker part one

Ok we have all done it, told ourselves we would never do it yet some how when that little voice reminds us of this fact we seem to ignore it. Yes, I dated a co-worker. I will be the first to admit that he wasn’t the cutest but he had a certain charm about him that appealed to me. For this segment we shall call him Ichabod for the simple reason he looked like the cartoon version of Ichabod Crane. Believe me when you accidentally start singing “ Ichabod, Ichabod, Ichabod Crane” they seem to hear you. Can’t here you when you want them to hear but those ears suddenly developed to super sonic the moment you mutter something under your breath that you don’t want them to hear.

He was so cute the first time he asked me out though. His knees where shaking, he was holding onto the desk, his grip so tight that his knuckles where white. ‘Would you go out with me?’ in one solid breath spoken so fast I wasn’t really sure what he was asking at first.
Why is it that a man who can speak to you though out the day, tell jokes and have a small bit of witty banter seems suddenly speechless and tongue tied the moment he wants to ask you out? A man who can stand before a group and give speeches suddenly shook as if he was in the middle of an earthquake when speaking to you one on one.

sorry

yeah I know I haven't posted for a while. I had to work on the next part of the blog. i know everyone is engoying it as it is now.other then thta life happens you know, i just got busy but the good news is the next section is almost done.